Wednesday, January 27, 2010

ding ding dang

Hey people , how are you all doing?

I'm currently studying Australian Matriculation @ Sunway University College incase if you guys are wondering what I've been doing now :P

College life's pretty fun , hell lot of different compare with secondaries.

Meet lots of new friends , people. They are all , different. Cool :)

Flexible timetable which makes lots of outing and yumcha ! yeah lol

Sadly , wallet hurts :( hahahahaha

Will be going for driving lesson this friday , I think I can only start driving at around march :( Which is quite long

Well I wouldn't want to wait to drive anymore because when you can drive its easy for you to stay back or stuff to hangout at campus with friends !! Especially if they are those who like to organize things at last mins , piff !!

Anyway a mini update of my current life , got to go to do my assignments :)

Ciao yeah.

Oh why ctjmz , is it really forcing for you to even talk to me at the phone just for awhile ? Having this sense of wanting to end the conversation asap as if you're busy with your drama or sorts , eesh. Nevermind , blame it on the past :(

Sunday, January 17, 2010

Sleeptime

Oh my

teenagers these days don't sleep that early :S

When the clock hits 12am , they only start to think about sleeping , but still not planned to sleep yet.

And their wake up times are usually over 12pm or somewhere early than that time but not that much.

Oh my , I think this makes all the teenagers to skip their breakfast !!!

Can skip one meal , not bad ah , gam fei ? :D lol

Wednesday, January 6, 2010

Relationship

Being in a Healthy Relationship means

1. Loving and taking care of yourself , before and while in a relationship.

2. Respecting individuality , embracing differences , and allowing each person to "be themselves"

3. Doing things with friends and family and having activities independent of each other.

4. Discussing things, allowing for differences of opinion , and compromising equally.

5. Expressing and listening to each other's feelings , needs and desires.

6. Trusting and being honest with yourself and each other.

7. Respecting each other's need for privacy.

8. Sharing sexual histories and sexual health status with a partner.

9. Practicing safer sex methods.

10. Respecting sexual boundaries and being able to say no to sex.

11. Resolving conflicts in a rational peaceful , and mutually agreed upon way.

12. There is room for positive growth and you learn more about each other as you develop and mature.


Being in a Unhealthy Relationship means

1. You care for and focus on another person only and neglect yourself or you focus on yourself and neglect the other person.

2. You feel pressure to change to meet the other person's standards, you are afraid to disagree, and your ideas or criticized. Or , you pressure the other person to meet your standards and criticize his/her ideas.

3. One of you has to justify what you do , where you go , and who you see.

4. One of you makes all the decisions and controls everything without listening to the other's input.

5. One of you feels unheard and is unable to communicate what you want.

6. You lie to each other and find yourself making excuses for the other person.

7. You don't have any personal space and have to share everything with the other person.

8. Your partner keeps his/her sexual history a secret or hides a sexually transmitted infection from you or you do not disclose your history to your partner.

9. You feel scared of asking your partner to use protection or s/he has refused your requests for safer sex. Or , you refuse to use safer sex methods after your partner has requested or you make your partner feel scared.

10. Your partner has forced you to have sex or you have had sex when you don't really want to. Or , you have forced or coerced your partner to have sex.

11. One or both of you ells and hits, shoves or throw things at the other in at argument.

12. You feel stifled ,trapped , and stagnant. You are unable to escape the pressures of the relationship.

Friday, January 1, 2010

The year of 2010

Happy New Year people !

Bye secondary high school and say hello to College O_O

I'm so sorry that I've been a cheapskate whereby I don't update my blog in a right way. You see all these posts are either short , boring and randomize.

Well it's not that I got nothing to blog about but maybe because I'm too lazy la , lol. I was distracted by games maybe [ Sigh I feel the hardcore aura in me ]

How do you get back the blogging mood again ? :(

Teach me people , heh.

Anyway I didn't go out anywhere for countdown or what sort of it. I even missed the fireworks outside my house just because I was dotaing. Okay , this is bad. lol

Okay , this is another typical-short-and-meaningless post of mine. Don't have the mood to do the full post. I'll try it tomorrow , I promise !! At least a 70% YES !!

okay , sign off now ! TEEHEE